I’ve got good news and bad news. I think I’ll start with the good news.
I’m a member of The Mom Pledge Blog whose mission is to “eradicate cyber bullying among moms.” Apparently there are some mean mommies out there who take pleasure in criticizing, demeaning, and hassling their fellow moms.
As if being a mom isn’t hard enough without dealing with that kind of crap from somebody who should know better. I’m not a “cause” kind of gal, but this is one I support wholeheartedly. So I took The Pledge. If you’re interested, click the link, take The Pledge, and grab a button to display on your blog.
The first weekend of every month, The Mom Pledge Blog hosts a Blog Hop. Bloggers post links to their posts and everyone who posts visits each others blogs. It’s a great way to meet other bloggers. The remaining weekends of the month, one of the links if highlighted. This weekend, it’s mine! So, go on over to The Mom Pledge Blog and check it out!
Now, for the bad news.
Things are not going well. In fact, things are sucking. Big time. (Sorry for switching gears so fast)
Our house is on the verge of collapse. Well, maybe that is an exaggeration, but that’s what it feels like. We’ve been here 2 months and I’ve already had to pay a plumber to clear tree roots out of the pipes and an A/C guy to recharge the leaking central air unit.
The outdated electrical wiring has killed 3 refrigerators. (Well, the third one works (badly) sometimes. I can’t store meat in the freezer because it quits working about 3 times a day.)
The lights dim whenever anything is turned on. My coffee grinder dims the lights in the kitchen. There is a leak of some sort that wets the carpet in front of the bathroom. Today, our toilets burped water all over the bathrooms before completely emptying themselves of water. And there was a really loud noise coming from the pipes–it sounded like the house was about to achieve lift-off. It needs some serious paint. I shudder to think what’s going to happen next.
My job, which I do like (the kids, the ladies I work with, the order of it) is costing us money. The expenses of daycare, gas, and other minor work-related things per month is almost $250 more than I make a month.
Granted, we’ve saved more than that in other areas by moving, so our budget is about the same as before. But, if I stayed home, we’d have extra money that we could be saving for a down payment on a home of our own.
We want our own house and we want to move back to the town we lived in before. We are active in our church and we are 35 miles away. We love our church family and need to be closer.
There’s also the issue of sick kids. I worked 1 day and 2 hours this week because my daughter was sick. She had strep throat and missed 2 days.
She went back to school and was only there for 2 hours before she vomited. She wasn’t really sick. Her antibiotic had upset her empty stomach, but there’s a 24 hour rule. A student has to be vomit free for 24 hours before returning to school.
So I left work with her one day and missed the next day, as well. I’ve been at work for just over a month and have already missed 3 1/2 days with sick children. The flu season isn’t even here yet.
So, this whole thing isn’t working, but what am I supposed to do about it? If I stop working, my kids won’t be able to go to the schools I want them to attend. I do not want them going to the local schools. I guess I could home school them, but we’ve tried that before. It didn’t work out. Of course, there wasn’t a real reason to do it then.
Now I have plenty of reasons–really good ones. Like I tell them almost every day when they’re complaining about going to a school so far away, “It’s only 9 months. We can do anything for 9 months.” Does that include sending them to the local schools? I’m so confused.
So, what do you think? If you were in my place, what would you do? I’m open to any suggestions here. I need a different perspective. Help me out?