First dates have changed over the course of the years. Things that were customary in the past are considered old-fashioned, creepy, or just not safe. It’s a sign of the times, and to be successful, you need to roll with it.
Here are some guidelines to make sure your first date is a success.
First Dates Do Not Include…
Everyday we manage multiple responsibilities, some of us excel at taking care of the details and thrive in such an environment. While others struggle trying to keep track of the details and truthfully dread having to do any kind of follow up.
As an Online Business Manager and Virtual Assistant I often find myself in the position of managing many aspects of my clients business, especially coordinating and following up with other freelancers and outsources that my client has on their virtual team.
That’s the fantastic thing of being an Online Business Manager I can directly support my clients in getting more things done, but taking care of all of the administrative aspects of their business and let my client focus on what they do best and what brings in the revenue for them.
So when I step into the role of managing my clients virtual teams I often try and follow these tips to keep things on track focused on the projects at hand.
TIP #1 – ESTABLISH OBJECTIVES
Whenever a new team member is brought on board or we are about to start a new project I take time to ensure that everyone understands their role and their work within the project scope. Sometimes this is just a quick email to the team or if it’s more elaborate I might organize a team meeting or individual meetings to cover objectives and roles.
To put this post into context so you don’t think I’m slightly strange, I’ve been researching racist skinheads for one of my university projects. Before I started I didn’t realize just how many websites there are out there promoting racial hatred in such extreme ways. Tonight, however, I stumbled on the website of one particularly extreme group and they shall remain nameless and unlinked because I don’t believe they deserve that promotion. Their website has a handbook that teaches them how to oppress “ZOGS” – in short term, Jews.
They also target homosexuals, black people, foreigners – anyone that, to them, isn’t white or British. They also feature shrines to Hitler and constantly state that his words are what everybody should live by – yes, really. I read their “handbook” and just had to share their tips just because they’re so bloody ridiculous. Please note, these are not by views. Continue reading
You’ll be very excited when job headhunters call you for a job interview IF getting a ‘better’ job is your goal. After going through a series of questions and tests and often more interviews, you’ll feel even better (maybe even ecstatic..) when you are finally selected from amongst one thousand other candidates!
You Must Be Very Good…
You must be very good at what you do if job headhunters look for you. You must have very special qualities (qualifications, experience, achievements, skillsets) that caught the attention of job head hunters from among the thousands of others in their databases.
Behind the scene, there’s an organization that is willing to pay these job headhunters a month’s salary (or more) to hunt the ideal candidate for a particular position. Often, the organization also pays the travel and accommodation bills for the handful of headhunted candidates. Continue reading
My nephew decided finally to get his GED certificate so when I just read an article about some online GED programs, I told him about it. And you know what he said? “I don’t need it”, “I can learn by myself”, “” It’s just not really my thing.”. It made me so angry but then I realized he is afraid of being criticized for his lack of educational achievements.
Criticism comes in all forms – “I’ve seen better.” “I don’t get it. “No offense, but…” “If you just changed this one little thing, it would work.” Criticism can be helpful or devastating depending on who and where it’s coming from. Don’t ignore the critics – but understand that critics will offer up criticism for a variety of reasons:
1. They generally care about your growth as a human being. – This kind of criticism is the constructive sort of support we all need. Of course, giving advice to other people on how to improve is extremely important and we all crave critique and discussion on these topics or we can’t continue to grow. Continue reading
In this post I talk about the changes in the GED that became effective in 2014.
Most significant changes: Computer-based, Affordability, Non-transferable credits, Difficulty.
In most states, the General Education Development (GED) examination was changed in 2014 and learners who have not completed the full examination by the end of this year, will see their scores not transferable any more. Roughly once every 10 years, the GED exam is updated because it is a high school equivalency test. That implies that the GED test-takers must meet up with the identical educative specifications as high school graduates would. Therefore it is a natural fact that the GED examination is changing according to high school curricula. Check also information about online GED prep scholarships.
These tips for career change are all about YOU – because all changes in life require adjustments on your part.
ABOUT YOURSELF: How old are you? Tip 1: Your age does not matter. It is your ambition, determination and drive that matters.
ARE YOU IN GOOD HEALTH? Tip 2: Starting a new career requires lots of effort on your part. If you’re weak and often sick you may not have the stamina to start one. Your ability to concentrate and focus on ideas to develop into a business may be compromised. The basics of good health are to watch your diet, get enough sleep and exercise regularly.
WHAT ARE YOUR SUCCESSES? Tip 3: Look back at your past. Did you finish your high school education? Your university education? Did you excel in any sports? Were you given new assignments or responsibilities in your job because you were good at what you did? Did you get any promotions, pay rises and bonuses due to job excellence? Do you have a happy marriage and family?
WHAT ARE YOUR FAILURES? Tip 4: Your failures are those questions in Tip 3 above which you answered ‘no’.
More tips for career change… ABOUT YOUR JOB: How long have you been working in your current job?
Tip 5: It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been in your current job. What matters is whether you have ‘enough’ Assets and Skillset to start your parallel career while still working.
How many jobs have you changed in your working life? Continue reading
I recently ran into a young gentleman who told me he was going to start a website design business.
“Who is your business going to serve?” I asked him. “Local business owners,” he replied. “Have you ever thought about serving business owners across the world?” I asked him “No,” he said.
By all means, I am not taking anything away from this ambitious young man. We need many more like him. I am only trying to illustrate a hugely important point that 99% of all entrepreneurs in America are missing: you can have a global business overnight, today even, if you want to. In many cases, developing the global component to your business can mean the difference between success and failure. With more and more countries coming online to the global business world, there is no reason not to take your business to the doorsteps of the new and emerging capitalist countries of the world. Moreover you can also grow your market and have loyal customers that grow with you. What do I mean?
I used to deal with negative people on a daily basis and it was physically and mentally exhausting.
My experience was very similar to the writer of this article, but instead of one person, I found myself surrounded by negativity from multiple people. My solution? I removed myself from the situation as quickly as I could.
I wish I had this article back then because it could have been very useful in helping me cope with the daily mess that I was subjected to, but hey, it’s done. I’ve learned A LOT and moved on.
I don’t even want to write about my experience, that’s how much I want to put it behind me.
That’s not really what Bloggers do, is it? Oh well! My energy is better spent on other things. 🙂
Tiny Buddha – How To Deal With Negative People
My trip to Boston was awesome….
Here are the highlights:
- I got to reconnect with my dear old friend J. We talked so much that weekend that by the end of every day my throat hurt. J… we have to talk more… Once a year isn’t cutting it anymore and now that a Facebook quiz told you that you are meant to be a Californian AND we don’t have snow… I don’t see that you have any other option.
- J is also a fellow Gluten-Freer. In fact, she is an original Gluten-Freer, having been suffering from the allergy since 1999. In my circle of friends, I am the only gluten intolerant so it was completely refreshing to not have to worry about it, or think about it, or talk about it. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind educating people, but sometimes it can be very overwhelming and exhausting to repeat myself. And since my diagnosis, I have not eaten out so much and so well. I had gluten free pizza… I had gluten free pasta… I even had delicious gluten free garlic bread and waffles!